At the Oleander Institute,
we offer inclusive sex coaching and education for adults that embraces diversity in all forms: gender, sexual, relationship, body and beyond. Learn more about us and our offerings below.
This workbook is for anyone who has children in their life — parents, aunties, teachers, caregivers, mentors — and for anyone who wants to explore their own patterns around consent and boundaries. It explores both developing the consent awareness of children and reflecting on how we as adults learned it ourselves through our upbringing.
By understanding how consent is shaped in early experiences, we can deepen our awareness of autonomy, empathy, and communication — and create environments where both adults and children can practice consent with clarity, respect, and care.
This workbook offers reflective prompts and practical activities to help adults teach consent in everyday moments — through play, empathy, and embodied communication.
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We created this workbook in response to the overwhelming interest in our Teaching Consent to Children workshops.
This workbook is for anyone who has children in their life — parents, aunties, teachers, caregivers, mentors — and for anyone who wants to explore their own patterns around consent and boundaries. It explores both developing the consent awareness of children and reflecting on how we as adults learned it ourselves through our upbringing.
Our Offerings
Sex and Relationship Coaching
We offer expansive coaching tailored for individuals and relationships. We are accepting new clients online. Consider working with us if you want to:
explore your sexuality;
feel more connected to your body;
experience more pleasure;
explore what ‘pleasure’ means to you;
explore relationship styles and developing healthy relationships;
be more present in your sexuality;
prioritize your desires;
learn to notice, value and communicate your boundaries as they come up.
Sex Education
We provide workshops and seminars, both in-person and online, for individuals, organizations, universities, and clinicians to expand understanding around gender, sexuality, identity, and more. Topics can be custom-tailored to your audience size and goals. Examples of topics we offer workshops on include:
The Erotic Dialogue
Polyamory 101
Gender & Sexuality in the Workplace and Beyond
Sex Dialogues (Cyprus)
Sex Dialogues is an inclusive conversation series dedicated to fostering open dialogue around sexuality. Our mission is to diminish shame and stigma surrounding sexual topics by promoting honest and respectful communication. Through this platform, we aim to encourage individuals to engage in active listening, share their perspectives, or simply participate through their presence. Together, we strive to create a supportive environment where everyone feels empowered to express themselves authentically.
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Over 100 Workshops
Led for organizations and individuals
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15+ Years of Sex Ed Experience
For adults and children
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Community Advocates
For a more inclusive and just world
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10 Years of Somatic Practice
Through Massage, Yoga and Tantra
Get in Touch!
Schedule a free 1:1 introductory session with us to learn more about our offerings.
FAQs
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While we host occasional in-person workshops, the majority of our services are offered online across the globe.
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At the moment, our services are only offered in English.
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1-1 Coaching: 100 euros/USD per hour
In-Person Workshops: 50-100 euros/USD per person
Virtual Workshops: 25-50 euros/USD per person
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Yes, we offer sliding scale options depending on availability. Please indicate your financial needs when signing up for a service or offering, and our team will assist you further.
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Yes! While we center the queer community in our work, we believe that everyone can benefit from expanding awareness around sexuality, gender and relationships.
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Therapy is a mental health service provided by mental health professionals who have completed graduate training in counseling psychology, social work, marriage and family therapy, and/or clinical psychology.
At the Oleander Institute, we define coaching as a service that works to help you identify and clarify your goals, recognize obstacles and behaviors that might stand in the way of achieving those goals, and create action plans to build the life you want.
Coaching is not a substitute for therapy. If you are seeking treatment for a mental health condition, you should seek services from a therapist who is licensed in your state or country.